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When the NHS murdered my mother back in may 2019 ..... she has not ever discussed with me when the time came what type of funeral she wanted . However I opted for cheap and cheerful 😊 ..... she was never embalmed and she had a natural burial ..... my mother was laid to rest in a woven casket .... both my children and I carried her coffin to a area where no one was buried at the time ... although she soon got neighbours 🤣 ... But she is in the countryside surround by fields and wild flowers and trees and animals the natural burial ground after 100 years gets left to set back to nature .

My mother loved nature as I do and I wanted her to go back to nature .

Her coffin was covered with a thistle purple cover .... we shared some words and then lowered her coffin into the ground ... as we did a military helicopter flew over .... it was like a royal ceremony 🥰 . We all placed sunflowers on her coffin and then we left . I would not have changed a single thing.... or was perfect .

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So beautiful, Bee.

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I visited both of my grandmas in the cemetery this week, up in Ohio for Christmas. My wife and I have been talking about what is the correct way to handle what to do with the body after death. To say this talk is timely is an understatement. These little synchronicities are a constant encouragement from the divine. Thanks Tyla and Douglas.

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We just listen to what you cats are discussing, here and over on Gab. You cats are directing the conversation and we find it amazing.

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We may be a small cattery, but the influencers in our group are amazing in their reach. Meow.

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I feel the same way. I am thankful to learn this information on death and burial.

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SECOND COMMENT! I like the Viking method, Put me on a wooden raft covered in kindling , Push me out to the middle of a peaceful lake and shoot a flaming arrow for my natural cremation 🔥🔥🦁🔥🔥…

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Yeah. That's your style, Scotty. I can see it now!

https://youtu.be/rtfP_hJSLSE

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Tyla and Douglas Gabriel.. I am thankful to have come to know you. And also John Barnwell. Today's pod cast is what I have been looking for to know. Thank you. Coming from the state of Iowa. You all are in my heart and prayers.

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We are so happy that we could be helpful. Not a lot of people talking about these important spiritual, yet practical, matters.

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Thanks much, Tyla and Douglas, for the timely and helpful response to my question! Our family heirloom dining table would work perfect for the 3 day watch immediately after death!

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Make sure to have a nice cloth to cover your corpse and leave reading material in the room that you would like to hear as you transition. Ask the mourners to read silently or aloud.

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Many thanks🙏🏽

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I laughed out loud Tyla. My family too thinks I’m a little out there so laying me out in the kitchen table would be a hard sell. I appreciate the practical advice Tyla! And I’ve shared w my nieces and nephews and son Doug’s guidance for reviewing the day’s events before sleep and reconciling any open issues. It got us talking which was wonderful bc that generation doesn’t think so deeply or at least express their thoughts out loud. Thank you for that precious Christmas gift and nightly tradition God willing! Xxxooo

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Talking about transitioning .... I was told by spirit that two angels were with my mum to help her transition .... my auntie in spirit had visited earlier that day .... she had never visited me before but she said she had come to be with me for what I was about to go through . It was later I was called into hospital and told my mum was being put into palliative care . ( cut the story short) I stayed with her by her side for 6 days slept on a chair that reclined . One of the pieces of music I played during that time was this music

https://youtu.be/g_LNp8xY1YM

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May you, also, be surrounded with such love as you transition to life after death.

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When my mums stepdad died …. Before I knew he had passed away i felt someone blow air in my face that it startled me and I reached out into the dark . When my mum passed away in the night the closer she got to death the atmosphere of light in the corridor was flickering …. I went to check thinking it was coming from a light bill out there…. But the lifhr bulb was fine ….. so I knew my mother was even closer to death . I had nodded off for a while and in that time she had passed . Her mouth was open . I stayed with her until midday and then left …. The hospital staff were awful … the whole experience of the NHS was awful .

When I got back home and was sitting my my children ….my mum came to say goodbye by blowing in my face also . I don’t know if that means anything significant / symbolic but It gave me some comfort .

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Thank you ♥️💗♥️

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Speaking of rituals, the Will, yes be explicit in your after death expectations. However in the case of spiritual cleansing and the ritual of inheritance, passing material to after death. Having seen so many families destroyed by the gains or losses when weather is given after death, my solution was to give it away in life, thus Spiritual cleansing and gives one many advantages in doing so. One just puts everything in the recipients name of the object given with the use of such item retained to the end of my days. Things are so complicated for the deceased relatives, give them access to your passwords in all areas, familiarize them with your obligations. This can also be done for avoiding massive inheritance taxes and levies one incurs in inheriting wealth. Especially if done in smaller amounts over time. Most of all the quibbling and fighting over who gets what and why can be navigated while you are still here.

Great talk. I think reading to the deceased life after death would be as much benefit for the reader as it is for the dead.

I sure do have many questions concerning the ethers especially fire and water. Perhaps one day we could have a chat on those specifically as they do tie into this subject and many others as well.

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Also, one of the first books of Steiner’s I bought was the anthrosophical Book of the Dead, Life between Death and Rebirth!

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Thank you

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THANKYOU ! ❤️🙏❤️🌹…

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